The single biggest problem in the world of sex and fetishes is people with their close-minded approach to anything outside of the box, so to speak. You should also ask him where, if anywhere, this is going. They did not pick this fate nor did anyone else for them. Yes, I am an Adult Baby. In the case of infantilism, the discipline of the mother or wearing diapers may create associations between pain, humiliation and sexuality. As long as I can remember mos old he wanted to do everything himself. Might this not be something to strive for?
Want to add to the discussion? There is a definite trend among people involved in activities society writes off as "weird sex stuff. Now, we're not scientists, but we're starting to think that where you find somebody practicing "deviant" behavior, you really find someone who developed an unusual stress release valve early in life, and stuck with it because it works. Look straight at him, put on an angry face, and ask him what the fuck his problem is.
So She designed a little test. If you or your spouse wear diapers for fetish play, have a cover story ready in case of accidents. Even if your spouse was reluctant to discuss her need to wear diapers at first, always welcome conversation if she wants to talk about it or anything else. A quick look at diaper girl Alliah in her baby dress and diaper with a plastic diaper cover. Once the problems are brought to light, then they can be dealt with.
I was tired of feeling like the third party in our bed. Exhausted trying to make it work with his sexual fetish. I use the term vanilla more to mean outside his fetish than truly vanilla. This statement rocked my belief. Or start without and then add in if it feels like we are not "growing" without notching up the tension a bit? A rare case of fetishistic behaviour". He says it also had a sexual side from the beginning: